Q: " I've read about how understanding
someone's body language works and so far it has proven fairly
useful. I know when to go approach someone and KNOW that they
are going to react well to me and I know when to not bother.
But other than that though, knowing how to read what a woman
is saying through her body language doesn't seem all that
useful at all so I'm just wondering, is there something that
I am missing? "
A: " As you already know, learning how to read and understand someone's body language is extremely useful. Whether it's at work, at home or even in the pub. Or should I say especially in the pub? If you have learnt how to read a woman's body language you should know whether she's interested in you before and during the flirting and you should know how to respond to that. "
But knowing how to read the body language
of a woman is not just restricted to knowing when to approach
and when to back off. It can be used for much more than that.
Mirroring is a seduction technique used to improve
relations between the 2 people. Once you've mirrored
someone enough, they will also unconsciously mirror YOU and
that's when you can trick and seduce the person (girl I hope!)
into doing what you want.
How do you mirror a woman's body language you ask? It's very simple. Just try to assume the same posture as the girl you're flirting with then start doing the same movements with your hands and try to use your body in a similar fashion to hers. You're probably thinking that it's too obvious and you look stupid, but trust me, just keep trying to mirror her body language! Instead of feeling weird she will actually start feeling more comfortable and relaxed around you !
If you've mirrored a woman's body language
right something interesting should happen, you should
be able to start leading and you will find that she will start
mirroring what you are doing! Unconsciously of course
but her body language will match yours. Try something like
scratching your shoulder. She might start scratching her elbow
– same thing! While you're doing this you will be building
rapport between the two of you. While you are leading her
body movements though, try not to do things that are overly
obvious and instead use motions and actions to emphasize what
you are already talking about.
Mirroring a woman's body language is a very
simple thing to do and you can do this on a date,
when you're first talking to her or even when you're just
making contact with her across the room! It is an
extremely useful seduction technique so if you haven't started
learning how to read and understand body language you should!
Because using a woman's body language can really bridge gaps
and build rapports quickly and the faster you get closer to
her, the easier it is to seduce her into your bed.
