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Q: "I seem to have this stumbling block whether I'm meeting a woman for the first time or out on a date with her. Somehow I always find the wrong things to say. Things that sound stupid, are too personal or should just have been plain obvious that I should not have said them! I can't seem to see these potholes of casual talk when I'm with a girl. Is there a list of things I should probably avoid when I'm talking to girls on a casual date?"

A: "There are certain issues that you should definitely avoid before you get close to a girl (read: start dating regularly). This doesn't just apply for when you first meet a girl and start talking to her, but also when you're out on a date with her. There are a few things that you really should not say and do.

  • Avoid talking to girls or women about your personal problems. Whether it's about family, work or money. She's out to have a good time, not to listen to your sob story and to be your counselor.
  • Whenever you're meeting women for dates, try as much as possible NOT to act desperate. It is a huge turn off for women.
  • Try to keep the conversation as upbeat and positive as possible so the girl you are talking to will retain more good memories of talking to you rather than bad ones.
  • A rather obvious thing to not to is to not get drunk. It is unattractive and unimpressive and you never know what you're going to say under the influence of alcohol.
  • If she's talking to you about her problems, don't try to analyze too much of it and ‘fix' it for her. Women just like to talk, they don't like it when men tell them what they did wrong and how to fix it.
  • Never ever decide to start talking to girls about your ex girl friend or wife . If the subject comes up, just be polite about it. The worse thing you could do is to start bitching to them about how horrible they were and how you were tortured.
  • When you're meeting women for the first time, talking about yourself and your accomplishments is a subject that will naturally come up during the course of your conversation. Gloss over what you've done and let her know more if she's interested. The important thing that you must not do is to brag about yourself. Know where the line is between impressing a woman and turning her off with your bragging.
  • And lastly you want to avoid talking to girls about politics, religion and conspiracy theories especially if you're not that familiar with her yet. Everything else is definitely open for discussion and they will be a helluva lot more fun and less likely to blow up that these 3 themes.

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