Q: " I am only moderately successful with women and I want more! I want to be able to attract any woman of my choice but I don't know how to. When I want to seduce a woman into my bed are there certain steps that I can follow to ensure that I am successful? Are there any secrets or tips I can tap into to increase my success with women? "
A:" There are steps you need to take to seducing women. When you take a step, it starts up a chain of events that you have to follow and maintain in order to be successful at the seduction. Think of seduction like a book, it has parts or different chapters. So if I were to write a book on the tale of seduction this might be how it would sound like this."
Chapter One: Preparation In order to start seducing women, you have to be ready for it. This is why in the tale of seduction, preparation is the first chapter . And I'm not just talking about preparing for the date by dressing up or buying presents. I'm talking about preparing your mental state of mind. Worried about rejection? Thinking about how your last date rejected you? Get over it and focus on succeeding right now!
Chapter Two: Getting Her Attention
For the next stage of seduction you must of course get her attention and create an attraction. There are many ways to get a woman's attention, you could cause a distraction you could get a waiter to pass her a note or better yet, you could just walk up to her. She might be impressed enough to pay attention to you because it takes guts to that. And with what little time she gives you, move on to chapter three!
Chapter Three: Making A Connection
In chapter three of a tale of seduction it's all about creating romance, building a rapport and making a connection with women . After you get women's attention this is when you step up in your seduction. In order for you to seduce her into wanting to be with you she has to like you and more. If you have a natural chemistry with her then its even easier to create a connection. Even if you don't though, it is possible and important for you to create some kind of connection. How can you build this connection? By talking to her on a number of subjects, flirting or moving into the sexual territory if you think that she can handle it.
Chapter Four: Getting Physical
Now I'm not talking about getting physical in terms of sex, at least not just yet. As with everything else seduction techniques take time. In order to gauge whether or not she is into you it's best to try to make small fleeting touches . Touch her hand briefly when you pass her a drink or put your hand on your back when you are guiding her through the door. Observer how she reacts to your touch and you can tell whether or not she is into you, or she has been lying.
Chapter Five: The Sexual Stuff
This is of course every man's favorite part in the tale of seduction. After all, this is what you've been working up to all these four chapters. After you have gone through all four chapters you can safely say that yes, this is the next step to take and you are both ready. You might think that it takes too long but if you rush a seduction, it won't go well because she might not feel interested enough in your to want to move on to the next step. Building up to sex makes it more worthwhile because firstly she will be attracted to you and secondly anticipation makes the act itself more exciting.
