Q: " Recently my lover has been complaining that she hasn't been enjoying the sex. And I have to admit that I'm not having as much fun anymore. I'm open to new ideas and techniques but I'm not quite sure what I can or should try out. I really want to have a better sex life and it wouldn't hurt if I could also help my lover do the same. So I guess what I'm asking for her are some tips or a guide to improve my situation. Throw a guy a bone here."
A: " There are many sex tips out there all encouraging you to change, improve and all ready to help you enjoy better sex. The following is just my guide to how you can improve your sex life and become your woman's greatest lover. "
Never be lazy when it comes to sex. It's a known fact that men are able to find easily find gratification. But if all you're interested is in yourself and pleasing yourself then women will most likely hate you as their lover.
Make time for sex. All the sex tips in the world will not make you a better lover until you make time to explore the sexual world. Think of sex as a muscle, if you stop using it, it will lose its strength and stamina. So no matter how busy or tired you are make time for sex! You don't have to have sex everyday and especially not after a hard days work when you are tired out. But don't forego sex entirely and know when you have to make that extra effort for it to work out.
Remember that women's sexual world is different from men! Taking the time to arouse her and bringing her to an orgasm is one of the best things you can do for her. Most women believe that they don't deserve the time and energy needed to achieve an orgasm, so prove them wrong! Show your lover that you can give her better sex and become her greatest lover by doing so!
Be open to new ideas about sex! The tip here is to try your best not to fall into a routine! If you're the same thing over and over again it's not just your lover who will be bored of having sex, you will as well! Star exploring your sexual horizons and picking up new sex tips, positions and techniques! There's plenty more information on how just about anyone can have better sex. As long as you're willing to try them out!
Enjoy sex! Same as dating, sex is to be enjoyed. If you are just trying so hard to have better sex and not enjoying yourself then what's the point? The other thing to remember is that if you're going to have better sex, you have to wrap your mind around it. I know men who think that sex is dirty and is something to be ashamed of. That is a ridiculous train of thought and if you thinking that way just forget it! There's a reason why there are sex tips like these to help you enjoy better sex! It is because sex is celebrated and sex is to be enjoyed by both men and women.