In order to be successful at dating women, one of your most powerful weapons is your self confidence and your self esteem. If you are lacking in these areas then you need to start building your self confidence today. Not just to increase your success with women, but to achieve more in life overall.
You should know this already, but women are naturally attracted in men who are confident in themselves and their abilities. Therefore in order to attract women you need to have self confidence. Do not however mistake self confidence for arrogance. Arrogance is a big turn off not just to women but everyone around you.
Even if you don't feel extremely confident with yourself at the moment, just remember that not everyone is born with high self esteem and self confidence. It is a skill that can be acquired along the way as you grow up and go through life. And there is certainly no reason why you can't build up your own self confidence.
There are a few things you can do to build up your self confidence and along the way, success when it comes to dating women. To start off, try analyzing yourself. List out your good points and think about how successful you are. Thinking of these positive things and realizing how much worse it can possibly be will be a start to building your self esteem.
The next thing you need to do is to list out your weaknesses. But don't just sit there and wallow in self misery. Thinking that you're a horrible or lazy person won't change who you are. What you need to do at this point is to try to change and weed out your bad habits. By overcoming these negative issues, you won't just improve as a person. Instead you'll also receive a boost in your self confidence and your ability to change and improve.
After this, the next time you're being criticized by someone, just give yourself some time to think about what they just said. We're they being mean or cruel or was there really some hint of the truth in what they said? If it was the former then you need to brush it aside immediately. You should never allow yourself to be depressed by the negative things that people say to make themselves feel better. But if you honestly think that there is some grain of truth in what they just said, then think about how you can change and improve on the bad habit.
And finally, self confidence isn't all that it's cracked up to be. Sometimes those who seem supremely confident with themselves are just putting on an act. This is also your final tip to building self esteem. Act confident even if you don't always feel that way and the women around you will also respond positively. This will help you feel better on the outside and the inside. And most of all you'll gain the confidence you need to start dating women successfully.
If you are able to build self confidence not only will you have the confidence to approach women, but they will naturally be attracted to you as well. So take the time out and gain the self confidence you need not just to improve your chances of dating women, but to improve your life as well.