Q: " So there is this girl that I met and we're having a ball when I discover the worse thing ever. That she is in a relationship. Thankfully he wasn't actually there at the party so we didn't talk much. Anyway I kind of kept in contact with her and I think really like her so I want a shot at this. Problem is her boyfriend is standing in the way. At the same time though I think she's interested because she's still text messaging me and we have spoken on the phone since the first time we met. Do I have a chance with her? Or should I just break this off now? "
A: " My advice to you my friend, is to forget about the girl. You've met her for maybe a few days? There are other women out there you can get a shag from. But if you're insistent, there is a way to break up her relationship with her boyfriend. It's not pretty, but it can be done. "
It's good to hear that you're talking to
her because that's what you need to do to break a realationship
up. This seduction technique involves just talking and listening
to her initially. What you have to do is to actually get her
to start talking about her relationship in general. It should
then move on to the little things that she doesn't like about
him and move deeper from there. She doesn't have to say much,
just get her talking about the things that she doesn't like
about her current relationship and the more you can relate
to her on those issues, the better. Because what you do next
is to get her to stop generalizing and start being more specific
about the problems she has. What you need to do here
is to discover the weak point, and amplify it.
Don't immediately fault the boyfriend, instead
try to be even more understanding and try shedding some positive
light on the situation. Explain the boyfriend's behavior and
try to justify it for him. And as the conversation goes on
and things get worse, stop justifying and start with the comforting.
(You're halfway there to breaking up her relationship!) At
this point the seduction technique requires you to stop speaking
from his point of view and start working on hers. Agree with
her that things shouldn't be this way and favor her in all
situations.
You're at the best place to be at this point
because she thinks that you're the only one who is there for
her and that her boyfriend is a complete jerk thanks to you.
This is when you begin to really work your seduction techniques
on her, when she is most vulnerable. At this stage while you're
trying to break the relationship up and seduce her at the
same time, you don't actually want to bring up her boyfriend
anymore. If she wants to talk about it let her but
your job is to just re-enforce the alienation, you must not
bring up the subject of her boyfriend .
My last piece of advice to you at this stage
of the seduction is that you must refrain from comparing yourself
to the boyfriend along the lines of “Yea what he did was bad,
but I'm not like that, I'm such a nice guy.” All you have
to do to break her relationship up is to keep reinforcing
how you think a sweet romantic relationship should be and
how the way her boyfriend acts contradicts it somewhat.
If you can, pick out a specific behavior because that is the
best way to cast a shadow of doubt on her entire relationship.
So there you have it a near perfect guide
on how to break a relationship up. I can tell you honestly
that it works and it's actually one of the best seduction
techniques out there. So good luck, and I hope she's worth
it.
