Q:" I have a problem because I'm in an awesome relationship at the moment and I have this great woman but I think that I can't keep her. From what I can tell our sex life is only so-so and I get an inkling that she wants more! She's happy with everything else and so am I and I don't think that sex is that important. But if she does then I'm doomed because I know that I'm not the greatest lover in the world. But could I become that? Could you give me some tips on how to become the kind of lover that she wants? "
A:" Every man wants to be women’s greatest lover! But it’s really not that simple. You could read up on a million so called sex tips and still not get it right. This is because in order to be an amazing lover you don’t just need the right techniques. You need the right attitude about sex as well. Of course every woman out there is different but the sex tips below are what every woman wants in her man."
In order to be her greatest lover, you can't just be good at follow sex tips and instructions. Women love men who are sensual and who are able to think that “sex isn't just about me and my penis.” Basically if you are a sensual lover, you will understand that sex isn't just about the part where you stick it in. The entire experience of sex makes you her greatest lover, not just when you are thrusting inside. From the atmosphere that you prepare to the fore play to the act itself, all this is sex and if you can show her that you are able to take your time and overload all her senses, that is when you will become her greatest lover.
The second sex tip that will help women enjoy better sex is for you to be more thoughtful. Men don't often realize this but foreplay is actually quite important to women. You may not have to do it all the time (like when you are having spontaneous sex) but to women, foreplay is a part of sex. And her greatest lover would of course be thoughtful enough to remember this. Foreplay doesn't have to be in bed. In fact, you can start turning her on before you even reach the bedroom. If you are able to make her feel hot, sexy and wanted in the shopping mall or over dinner then you can definitely expect a great night of sex ahead.
In order to be women's greatest lover, you also have to be unique! Now there may be many sex tips and techniques out there that will teach you the best positions or the best ways to turn a woman on, but in order to truly enjoy better sex, you have to be able to add your own flavor to it. Apart from that it is important that you don't fall into the trap of having routine sex. Change things up every once in a while, be adventurous and try new positions of methods of making out and oral sex. If you can show women that you are unique and able to give her more than just normal missionary sex then yes you will be her greatest lover because chances are not many men actually think about doing this for women.
Finally the sex tip of all tips, is to show women that you are determined to show her a good time . As you know, women take longer to achieve orgasms compared to men and because of this they feel bad or are willing to forgo orgasms because they are afraid that the men will lose interest. If you are able to show her that you are interested and that you will wait for her and help her work towards it then the sex won't just be better, it will be amazing. Plus it will cement yourself as her greatest lover because you actually took the time to ensure that both of you enjoyed the experience.
