For some, flirting is one of the best parts of dating and getting to know women. Most people also associate flirting with pick up lines, and different ways of talking to women. But did you know that there's such a thing as non verbal flirting? Combined together with the usual flirting techniques, you can really have women eating out of the palm of your hand. The reason why this way of flirting is so successful is because unlike the spoken word, your body can signal invitation, acceptance or refusal without being too obvious. This causes a natural attraction that you cannot build with words alone.
The following are methods of flirting you can use to attract women without using words.
Use Your Eyes Your eyes are actually a great way of flirting with a girl. Start off by getting her attention. You can do this by getting her to look you in her eye and holding her gaze. And when her attention is on you, give her a playful smile or wink before you head over. You would already have scored points before ever saying a word. Don't just make eye contact that one time when you were across the room though. The secret here is to continue making eye contact when you're flirting and chatting with her.
The only mistake you can make here is if you overdo the eye contact in a premature attempt to increase intimacy. This may cause women to feel uncomfortable. It may also send misleading signals instead so you need to know when enough is enough.
Check Your Posture Your posture and how you carry yourself is another important part of non verbal flirting. Take note that your body language speaks volumes about you. For example, you may be smiling and laughing but if your body is acting tensed up you will give yourself away. It's also known as non-verbal leakage because while we're controlling our faces and what we say, our real feelings about the matter sometimes leak out in our postures. Attract women by standing tall and having an open posture. This means having your arms at your sides instead of in front of you like a shield.
Gestures As well as overall body posture, the gestures we use when we flirt can signal interest, attraction and invitation. It can also show discomfort, dislike and rejection. The secret to good flirting is to be aware of these non-verbal cues. Use them to read your partner's body language as well as control the messages you are sending out with your own gestures.
When you're flirting, you can attract women as well as hold their interest by enhancing your speech with appropriate gestures. Things like shifting your hands or head slightly at the end of sentences, using downward hand movements to emphasize a point. You can also try ‘projecting' what you are saying towards your partner by open-palm hand movements and so on. When she is speaking, you can show responsiveness by nodding in agreement, throwing up your hands in surprise, bringing them together in a 'silent clap' of appreciation, and so on. All this is part of the flirting.
Touch The final and most important part of non verbal flirting is touch. Touch is extremely important to women because they enjoy being cared for, hugged and comforted. When you're flirting you can use fleeting touches on the arm, to draw attention, express support or even to emphasize a point. As long as she's interested in you and you're not being intrusive, she should respond in a positive manner to your advances.
