Q: " What is it that makes guys a good
flirt? I realize I'm not the best looking bloke on the block
but that doesn't mean that I can't be good at picking up the
girls right? There has got to be something that I am missing
because when I'm meeting women or going out on dates with
them I'm not nearly as successful as I would like to be. Is
there a way of refining my flirting technique or some secret
pick up line I can use? "
A: " To be a successful flirt you
don't just need to look good, you need to sound good as well.
And no I'm not talking about whether your voice is melodious
or not. I'm referring to your conversation skills. The flirting
technique I'm going to be teaching you uses verbal flirting
to start meeting women. "
Once you've started flirting and talking with a woman, the next important step is to figure out what to say to her that will keep the conversation going and keep her interested . This is where the verbal flirting technique or ‘turn talking' comes into play. Successful flirting involves giving and taking in a conversation. You have to know when to jump in to fill in the blanks, to contribute to the conversation and when she wants to talk.
Would you like to listen to someone droning on and on about a subject that you have no interest in? Of course not! And neither would she, so when you are talking or flirting with her, watch out for signs and subjects of interest. In fact, let her do most of the talking because from there you'll be able to figure out what she's interested in, and what to talk about . Once you're good at just talking to her you've succeeded in the first step of the verbal flirting technique
General tips on how to flirt or what talk
about would be to not be negative about things. It is a huge
turn off. Women also do not like men who are too obsessed
with themselves. If the subject of you comes up, talk about
yourself for a bit but know when to stop and please know when
you're bragging and stop ASAP.
A sure fire way of getting a woman
to react positively to your flirting techniques is to compliment
her. Compliment her on how she looks and her tastes
but as with everything else don't over do it. If you have
a good sense of humor and she reacts to that then making her
laugh is also a great thing to do. It may not cause her to
immediately want to sleep with you, but if she is laughing
it means that she is comfortable with you. And that is the
first step to meeting and bedding a woman.
The verbal flirting technique is
mainly based on your skills to carry out a conversation
because getting to know each other is the first step to meeting
and eventually dating a girl. Sounds simple doesn't it? So
start practicing your conversation skills with women. Any
women will do whether she is the woman at the corner shop,
your female colleque or the girl who is also waiting for the
same bus as you are.
