Q:" I have a problem meeting girls and
I'm guessing it's because I'm a terrible flirt. I never seem
to know what to say and I'm about to give up on this aspect
of dating. There has to be other ways I can use to meet girls
apart from flirting with them right? I'm so depressed I'm
about to give up on dating and flirting entirely. Please help
me out with some flirting advice!"
A: "The ability to be a good flirt
isn’t something that all men are blessed with and I feel your
pain. However I disagree that you cannot learn how to be a
good flirt. The best way to meeting women or to pick up some
girls is to flirt with as many of them as possible so the
inability to flirt is definitely a crutch and to me, every
guy needs to know how to flirt with women. If you’re still
unsure then just build up your confidence and take some of
my flirting tips and advice. As long as you are willing to
keep trying you’ll soon be flirting like the best of them."
My first piece of flirting advice is for you to stay calm and collected when you're flirting with girls . A charming collected guy is sexy and a desperate loser is not. Remember that flirting is not the be-all of dating and one girl rejecting you is not the end of the world. If you're going to be a good flirt you have to be light hearted about things
My next piece of advice is for you to flirt
with everyone! The only way you're going to be a good flirt
is with practice. Focusing on one woman only will not make
you a good flirt because you will then only know how to flirt
with one type of woman. Even if you are dating someone, lightly
flirt with everyone you meet. Take my advice and start flirting
with the women in your office or the people on the bus or
train. You'll just come on as a really friendly guy. Plus
if something goes wrong with the woman you're casually dating,
you'll be fully prepared to head out there to snag another
girl.
You should also try to remember that flirting
is supposed to be fun. Flirting and meeting women is not a
job that you have to take seriously and the tone of your voice
shows whether you are enjoying yourself or not. The
purpose of flirting is to make the woman feel good and interested
in you. If you're stressed out and not having fun,
chances are she won't be either and she'll leave you for a
guy that's more relaxed and enjoyable to be around. So take
my flirting advice and don't get too stressed about flirting
and datingjust because one woman rejected you. There are plenty
of other women out there willing to meet and date you.
