Q: " My friend has been trying to explain
to me this technique of body language mirroring but I've got
no idea what he's been babbling on about. Supposedly I can
use it to read body language and understand how women work
and start an attraction with them? Is this true? I don't suppose
you could explain to me exactly what all this body language
is all about? "
A: " Ah body language. One of the
best ways to seduce a woman is true body language and body
language mirroring is one of the better techniques. Now before
I get down to telling you exactly how the seduction part works,
let me first try to explain to you what exactly body language
mirroring is and how you can use it as an attraction technique.
Hopefully I'll do better than your friend."
A variation of body language mirroring is deals with eliciting values and using trance-words - that is verbal mirroring. But a better-known variation of body language mirroring is physical mirroring. Actually, you've most probably been doing it all your life without knowing it but once you know how to do it consciously, that's when you have the upper hand.
Notice how people that seem to be engaged in an interesting conversation - they are excited about what they themselves are saying, they are about to say and what the other is saying, in other words, they have rapport - seem to take the same poses, whether sitting or standing up . When sitting, either side by side or on opposite sides of the table - one leans forward and then the other leans forward as well, one leans backward and then the other leans backward as well, they cross their hands in the same manner, tilt their heads similarly, seem to be having similar side-activities. In other words their body language seems to be mirroring that of their companion.
So you're wondering are they doing that
on purpose. And the answer is no they are not. In reality
their bodies are doing it unconsciously while their concentration
is fully on the discussion at hang. On other occasions they
don't even have to be in a conversation to have their body
language mirror and unconciously causing an attraction between
one another. The 2 people will make the same movements
at almost the same time without even interacting with each
other.
What is all this knowledge good for? Well,
body language can be used as a tool for building rapport
during a seduction. Being similar or having someone
similar in your vicinity creates a feeling of ease, comfort,
being understood as well as protected. As a seduction technique,
you can use your body language to create these feelings of
attraction in the with the girl one you are mirroring, she'll
subconsciously link all those feelings to you.
So in a nutshell, that's how body language
mirroring works and a little glimpse of how you can use it
to seduce or cause an attraction with a woman or girl. I have
to sign off now but there are more detailed ways on how you
can use this technique of body language mirroring to quickly
seduce women. But that is for another letter. Hopefully in
this article I've answered all your questions regarding the
issue on body language and how mirroring a girl's body language
can prove to be a useful seduction technique.
