Q: " I found that it's hard to get a
woman to stay constantly attracted to me. I treat her nice
I get her gifts and I give her my time and respect but it
doesn't seem to work. How do I make them call me instead of
me having to call them all the time? I hate the fact that
I'm the one begging for her attention and I would love to
turn the tables on her. How can I seduce her or attract her
to me? "
A:" Women are really funny sometimes and
I've given up trying to understand them. I think its common
knowledge and a general consensus that women fall for the
bad guys and nice guys don't win! Now I'm not saying that
you have to be a total jerk to attract and seduce women but
you absolutely cannot be a doormat. So what you need to do
is to actually stop showering her with gifts and
attention. "
One of the best ways of trying to attract
a woman and getting her to stay with you is to actually act
like you don't have time for her. Let the girl know that you
are a busy and important person and that you have other things
to do. It is vital that she knows that your world
does not revolve around her so she cannot take you for granted.
Let the girls know that you are a busy and
important person. You may seem a bit doubtful but this is
just another seduction technique that women fall for and enjoy.
For some reason women enjoy a challenge and if you
continuously provide her with a challenge she will stay attracted
to you . Play on her sense of wanting what she cannot
have and get her to compete for your time. That way you get
her to make the effort of seducing and trying to attract you
away from all these other ‘activities'.
However, in order to attract a woman's attention
and keep it that way, you also have to put some effort into
spending time with her. The only way this seduction technique
will fully work is if the time you do spend with her is quality
time. She has to have the best time of your life! You
have to really make her enjoy and just love spending time
with you so that when you're not around, she will
keep thinking and wanting to be with you.
And remember, all this time that you're
letting her know that you're too busy for her, never make it
absolutely final. In order to keep the attraction going you
have to always give her a glimmer of hope that she can and will
some day get your full attention and hold it. Never give that
to her, but always give her hope that she can. This way you
can keep any woman attracted to you for a very long time.
