Q: "Picking up a woman isn't always
an easy thing. I'm always freaked out on what I'm going to
say and it gets worse when she's surrounded by her friends.
They're just giggling at me like I'm not even there and to
make matters worse, she starts laughing too and I end up looking
like an idiot. I'm about to give up on meeting women who like
to hang out in groups cos I can't seem to find a way to speak
to her properly and I don't know how approaching a group of
women works. I'm sure if I could persuade her into leaving
her group I'd do a lot better one on one. But how can I do
A: "Now that that scenario sound familiar or what. You spot a great woman but she's with a bunch of friends and you really want to get to ‘know' her but you don't know where to start. I realize that approaching a girl all by herself and approaching a whole bunch of women is a different thing altogether and not everyone has the confidence to do so, but guess what, I figured a way around it."
There's actually a trick here to getting her attention and getting her away from the group of women. You could of course just walk up and talk to her and if she is especially very stunning and attractive she is likely to be the kind of girl who would be susceptible to this trick. This is of course based on the generalization that girls who look hot and dress up like attention.
What I usually like to do is to casually approach the entire group of women then walk up to her from behind or from the side, lightly touch her arm and say “Can I talk to you for a minute?” This works even better if you're able to get close enough to whisper that in her ear.
Yes it really is THAT simple! You get straight
to the point, and because it's so non-intrusive she's
very likely to fall for it, leave her group and come over
to talk to you ! She will of course imagine all sorts
of things that you could possibly want to talk to her about
which leaves you open for a multitude of topics. The best
part of this trick is that even if she doesn't leave her group
immediately there is a high chance that she'll come over in
the later part of the evening just out of curiosity. All you
have to do is to work up the confidence to approaching the
entire group of women once! Just make sure that you have a
group of friends near you whom you can walk to if she fails
to take interest the first time around.
This is a classic trick to get a woman to
leaving a group that can be used anywhere you like. It's worked
in bars, parties, seminars, work and even at churches! Meeting
women has never been easier than this. So the next time you
see that woman surrounded by a bunch of friends and you're
not so sure about approaching and meeting a whole bunch of
women, don't be intimidated. Go over, speak to her
and get her to leave her group and come to you!