Q: "My problem is that I can’t seem to hold a woman’s interest for very long. When I first start seducing women it all works out fine, but really early in our relationship I can tell that she’s starting to take advantage of me but even then it fizzles out soon after. I listen to her, I’m polite and I do what she wants. What more do women want? Why do my relationships not work?"
A: "The first thing you need to realize is that you can’t keep doing what you’ve been doing all this time. The nice guy tactic doesn’t work. Sure it’s cute at first and all that but you won’t be able to hold her interest forever. The sure fire way of attracting and seducing women is by becoming a dominant alpha male."
You have to know when to be gentle and when to stand up to them. I'm not asking you to be considerate but falsely agreeing to everything that she says seems like a good idea initially but you will cause her interest in you to wear out. You see, when a woman discovers that she can take advantage of you, she will and enjoy it at first too. But eventually she will lose respect for you and interest as well.
Don't let her lose that interest! Take control of your relationship and become the alpha male that will keep her on her toes and both of you happy . Things you need to do to turn yourself from docile male to alpha male include:
Standing up for yourself – Never be afraid of saying no to women. Women do not find pushovers attractive. But at the same time, you must also figure out when you are saying no for a good reason, and when not to say no just because you can. Listen to what she has to say and then make your decisions. The key here is to be true to yourself.
Be decisive – An alpha male is always decisive and comfortable with being in charge . Women find men who take charge very attractive and it is possible to seduce women just by being dominant. This is due to the fact that women are usually quite indecisive so having someone who will take care of all the decisions for her can be quite relaxing.
Don't ask, inform – Some men feel that they have to seek a woman's approval before they try something out. This is not true! You are your own man and you do not need her approval before you can get that crazy haircut or that funky shirt. Instead, inform her of your opinion and listen to hers and make whatever decision you choose. Be considerate but remember an alpha male doesn't need a woman's permission to do whatever he likes.
When to give presents - Part of seducing women is to treat her right and to shower her with ‘gifts'. The problem with that is that if all you do is reward her then she'll become too accustomed to it. Your gifts will then become expected and not so special anymore. So in order to hold her interest and to keep her attracted to you, only reward her good behavior. You can also try rewarding her with hugs, kisses or even words of appreciation instead of with money and gifts. You may find that she like those better.
